Then again, would they actually tell me? Black male voices Finally, I find that there is very little literature written about Black American male sexuality in the absence of disease and oppression. I have tried penis exercises to no avail and even considered penis enlargement surgery, but I cannot reconcile the idea of sharp objects in that neighborhood. If he was not talking about it, he was challenging other kids to a dick size contest. I'm also Black and the 'word' is all Black men have a large phallus.